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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OR..."Ok sweetie I'll contact my lawyer to draw up papers to divide OUR 401k, home, stocks, car, child support and alimony. Maybe after that if you're lucky you'll be able to afford to take the new gf to Burger King."[/quote] You aren't very smart now, are you? Thinking you suddenly have money while I go poor? You won't get child support because I will have the kids 50% of the time. There is no such thing as "alimony" any more! We divorce, split the assets and debts, then you support yourself plus 50% of the kids. See how that works? You can't threaten me to stay (faithful) in a sexless marriage.[/quote] Going by your countless posts I will bet your wife is happy when you're gone. In fact, she may be happy if you get a AP. Less work for her plus she can enjoy doing the things that really interest her.[/quote] If she'd rather lose 50% of her time with the kids and suffer a down-grade in lifestyle than have sex with me in order to be "happy", so be it. Cutting loose her frigid dead weight will make me happy too.[/quote] You should! For whatever reason she's done with that aspect. Resentment is a big one from many women I talk to. If you've cheated and she knows that would be a big one, just guessing though. Life is too short. You should be happy and so should she. Why don't you talk to her to see if you both can work out a friendly divorce to co-parent and impact the financials as much as possible. I did this with my first husband. We were not compatible so we used one lawyer and he put it through. We didn't even have to go to court, BUT this is rare. If you cheat...then that's when divorces seem to get ugly. It's a change, but it will get better. [/quote]
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