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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I posted earlier with tips from our family. But then I showed the thread to my husband. He said 15:03 hit it on the head, and that he'd known plenty of men like that, most of them divorced. [/quote]

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OP, you can't turn this around with lists. I'd find a good family therapist (likely to have toys for the baby to play with) and see if he is willing to change and grow into a husband and family man. If not, and I don't mean this to be harsh, the adjustment to divorce will not be all that great. You do not need to live like this. You still have time to build a happy life for you and your son and possiblly a new partner some day. You can't make someone change, but you can help set the stage and see what happens. There is no worse feeling than feeling lonely in your marriage. You shouldn't have to compete with exercise. I really wonder if he is using the exercise to manage moods or bad feelings given the intensity. If so, that needs to be addressed. Good luck, OP.[/quote]

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