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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think your biggest mistake was deleting her off of Facebook (and I apologize if someone has already suggested this, but this is a REALLY long thread... I don't have time to read 10 pages).

If this woman has really made it her mission to make you miserable, you just gave her the greatest satisfaction ever.
By deleting her, she knows she got to you & but good and she is feeling pretty good about herself right now.

I also, have a passive aggresive sister-in-law & the greatest advice I've ever received was to kill her with kindness or don't react at all.

When she wrote that post, you knew exactly what her intention was.  The way you should have handled it was to say  "and his uncle loves his back!" with a big ole' smiley face next to it!
Not only are you showing her that her petty, immature bullshit doesn't faze you in the least, but you're also showing EVERYONE else that YOU are indeed the bigger person (because believe me, everyone else sees her cattiness for what it is too).

Or, you shouldn't have reacted at all... but either way you're showing her that she doesn't bother you any more & eventually she'll give up on this crap if she sees she's not effecting you & she's just wasting her time.  [/quote]

^^ Sorry, same poster... I hit send by accident. ^^

One last thing... this is all about pride, your pride, her pride.
Pride SUCKS and are some people's greatest downfall... it's also an obvious sign of immaturity.
Drop your pride... don't respond aggressively or passive aggressively.

Play her game, only play it better... like an adult would & don't sweat the small stuff![/quote]

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