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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]op,  i dont agree with DCUM here. i think you mafe a mistake blocking SIL from fb, but you owned that. everyone hete is unfairly  giving you a hard time. everyone comes on here to vent every onve in a while.

i think you shoulkd juyst cvontinue doing what you're doing.  let dh do the communicating.

the one thing id keep an eye out for though is as your dd is growing, make sure the inlaws dont bad mouth you in front of her. if they do thst, you and dh need to disengage again for good.[/quote]

OP, you really shouldn't sockpuppet.  If you are, you need to switch to a computer because the spelling mistakes that came out of your phone are almost identical to the ones you had when you posted your "BIL's FB post".[/quote]

I'm the poster you're quoting and it's absolutely not OP.  All the typos was because my tablet at home was acting up and slow and I didn't realize the errors until I hit "submit" but seriously, ask Jeff.  I am NOT the OP and I absolutely believe that DCUM is being awful here to OP.

OP I just wrote my post because I just felt so bad that you were being ganged up on by DCUM.  like I said above - you owned your mistake, but seriously I would just back away from the family and tell your DH not to tell you what they say about you.  Let him deal with them.  Think of it this way - let them expend all their energy and time hating on you.  You spend your energy and time on your DH, DD and your own life.  When you realize that your life is much better - and you are in a better place - because you stopped spending your energy on them, you'll have a certain peace over yourself.

But I just want to reiterate that you need to be careful that as DH deals with them and your minimal, polite interactions with them occur, that you make sure there aren't passive-aggressive bad comments made about you in front of your dd.  That could be bad and you'd have to - at that time- step in.

Sorry DCUM is being so awful to you.[/quote]

I agree. I'm definitely taking major steps back and spending time away. I think severely limiting contact will help. Thank you for your kind words.[/quote]

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