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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's a son problem. My son called to tell me he didn't let his wife know that I was coming. He just wants me to let it go and says it will all smooth over.[/quote]

And you know why he's got a problem?

It's because you are overbearing and his wife isn't a doormat.

STEP BACK. [/quote]

Why is it overbearing to want to go on a trip you're paying for? I discussed in advance with my son. He agreed. I'm the problem here?[/quote]

You are not the problem.  Your DIL is an ass.  My ILs pay for vacations too.  Never did it occur to me that they would not be coming.  [/quote]

Seriously, if only my ILs would pay for a Disney trip.  They have never given my kids anything above a $25 gift card (and yes they can afford it).  I can't stand my ILs, but in this circumstance would happily go on a trip with them for the sake of my kids.[/quote]

What if your husband's ex, who the ILs consider family, also tagged along?[/quote]

I don't see the OP saying anything about that.  But frankly if I had married a man with children I would have to accept vthat his ex would be in my life to some extent.[/quote]

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