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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah well he must be good . SC gets results. That’s what most people say. Yes 
he might yell at your DD, but he makes them better players. Granted a few girls have left because of him but clearly other parents value his coaching . BSC clearly loves him if he continues to coach young girls and can build winning teams . So clearly Bethesda isn’t on its way down. [/quote]

Coaching boys is different than coaching girls.  They must be treated differently.  This is a fact. Anyone who tells you different is lying or doesn't know what they are talking about.

Go ahead parents.  Send your tween or teen to a coach who yells, screams and berates them constantly.  Be prepared to deal with mental health problems, body image/anorexia/bulimia issues, and heaven forbid them taking their own lives at some point. [/quote]

Ok straight talk.
If your daughter is this emotionally and mentally fragile she never could have played top level soccer. Better to learn it now and get out!! She never could have had the fortitude to make it. She may not even be able to handle to regular stressors of life. So sorry your daughter became suicidal or bulimic from this coach which is what you’re awkwardly implying. Hope she gets better. It’s too much for some! [/quote]

DP. You sound toxic. And ignorant. You really think that girls should learn to tolerate abuse? GTFO. I remember a coach who routinely yelled at my team as a HS senior (school coach) and it was scary and demoralizing at that age. And I’m now a very capable adult who can handle conflict productively. Yelling at children is a sign of a weak and incompetent adult. And parents like you who condone it are even worse. You’re pathetic. [/quote]

He/she never said that yelling was needed but also stop making excuses for these kids for EVERYTHING!! The kids have to take accountability and put work in as well. Not everything can be handed to them. You were 17-18 years old and a coach yelling at you demoralized you? scared you? Give me a break... You're probably the parent that emails the school to make sure your child gets "the best" teachers and "a classroom enviroment that's welcoming to all learning styles" like there are teachers out there who don't want to provide that to the kids. [/quote]

Kids can be held accountable and be required to work for things without being yelled at by an adult.   Your home must be a joy for your spouse and kids to live in, provided, you aren't divorced already. [/quote]

See your problem is that you didn’t read what I wrote. I never said that anyone needed to yell, but if someone does… it’s not the end of the world. 
And unlike you my home is probably a safer space for my spouse and my 3 kids. But at least my kid won’t grow up identifying as a goat like yours might because you’re such a cool parent and your kids are angels who do no wrong. 
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See, your problem is you are a fake tough guy and a clown.

Don't presume to know what your kids will grow up like. There's no way they share everything with someone like you. I feel bad for them. If they do have gender or sexual identity issues, the way you just said what you did, it's clear you will be disappointed and not love and accept them for who they are inside. [/quote]

See it’s hard to be a “fake hard tough guy” when I’m a mother and wife. Move along. Thank you Dr. Phil[/quote]

This explains a lot, Karen.[/quote]

This is super entertaining but people do realize that this is an Anonymous forum where it could be anyone saying anything at any time. People really need to go back to the office and work or get a better hoby. The fact that people are getting so personal is scary. [/quote]

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