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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does it seem like identifying yourself as “codependent” is really just an excuse to be a selfish a-hole? [/quote]

The term is based in reality and has tons of merit.   I grew up in a home with great parents…and my dad was an alcoholic who depended on my mother to keep our life together despite his addiction.  She was 100% co-dependent and it really set a bad example for my siblings and I.  So, I’m 100% supportive of the book/concept and have lived it all myself. But JH makes it all “extra” and is throwing her daughter under the bus along the way.[/quote]

I 100% agree with this concept as well since I lived it with my parents. My mom enabled both my dad and brother for different reasosn. Unhealthy but how she survived.

But what I'm hearing is that Jen has lived a fake life for a long time, covering up and enabling. I think she was trying to keep an image together too. That's sad. But that doesn't mean she needs to thow her kids under the bus.

I think she can share this concept and self growth because she has a platform to share this info, but not bring in her kids.  Personally I'm fine with her sharing about Brandon,  he's an adult and can own the consequences.

And I'm pretty sure that I would be shocked or disappointed by all the authors , influencers, etc that I follow online. [/quote]

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