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[quote=Anonymous]I have just realized that a friend of 25+ years is a severe alcoholic. I talk to her daily and had not noticed it. I rarely drink so never really put two and two together. She's gone through a terrible divorce and other trauma, which have exacerbated the problem. As of now, she doesn't know that I've figured it out as I hesitate even saying anything bc she gets extremely defensive over any criticism and I know she won't listen. After losing four jobs (always excuses saying she quit) and her appearance getting worse and worse, I'm quite fearful as to what lies ahead. I've been in touch with mutual friends who all have seen concerning behavior and I've just recently put it all together. I feel like a fool for not seeing this earlier. She has lied to me about so much, I'm not sure I can get past the deceitfulness and continue the friendship. I have no experience with interventions or best ways to handle an alcoholic. I don't think there is anything I can do, right? She doesn't eat, has a puffy face and belly and is stick thin now. She has aged 20 years in the past 5 years. I feel like I should do something, but what I'm hearing is that only she can decide to get help. I'm sad knowing that if she doesn't stop, she will die. Any advice appreciated.[/quote]

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