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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand this thread. I’m in my late 40s and weigh the same as in my 20s and have near zero drive for years. I regularly have sex with my husband because I want him to be attached and committed to me. It’s really a very easy way to keep the peace. Obviously this approach may be hard for victims of sex abuse, but for everyone else I highly recommend it. Maybe as I age my mind will change, who knows. [/quote] I finally found an upside to being a sexual assault survivor -- apparently it's the only valid reason for a woman to stop having sex when her libido dies. But seriously, as someone who has been dealing with the trauma of nonconsensual sex for 20 years -- if you don't want sex, you don't have to have sex. If you are willing to make yourself do it to please your spouse, that's up to you. But NO ONE is obligated to have sex they don't want. And no one is entitled to sex with someone who doesn't want it. [/quote]
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