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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a super functional 48 year old who still has a pretty perfect marriage of 25 years, super healthy relationship, happy relationship with my parents, exceptionally successful and fruitful career....

and yes, i gave astounding amounts of attitude to my parents as an 18 year old, just for regular parent stuff. And we had a pretty healthy stable home.  So yeah, if i was mad at my parents for blowing up our entire stable home, and on top of that they started bringing home SOs and expected me to deal with it..... you can bet I would have been horrific.  Kids who just

Point being that the behavior described by OP is both objectively terrible and rude, and also completely developmentally normal. I dont understand why adults can't just not date for 8 years. It just seems like the natural consequences of the divorce. Sometimes grownups don't get to do everything they want to do. [/quote]

Oh come on. As you so humbly detail, you have great parents, a perfect marriage, and on top of that an extraordinarily successful career! Yet you think you can lecture other adults that they need to isolate themselves from a key source of social connection and support for a decade? Get tf out.

I don’t think parents should rush to remarry or even integrate a new partner into the family but children are not in fact so delicate that they cannot handle their parent dating, if done thoughtfully.

But thanks again for decreeing misery and loneliness for others while you enjoy your perfect life![/quote]

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