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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Marriages go thru phases over 50 years.

An affair for 1 or two years when someone was on a deep midlife depression or had unaddressed issues does not negate love…what about the other 48 years?  It’s a blip- just variety sex out of the system

[b]If it started with great love/passion and friendship—it is there[/b].  [/quote]

But so did their affair, right? So much friendship, love and passion it overrode the other person.their happiness, their time, their emotional investment, their future that you’re not interested in?

Why should one person get everything and the other person get NOTHING but scraps. Please explain it to me. When they chose their arise partner, they made their partner secondary. So why is that okay? Because the cheater decided so?

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No. Not all of them.  Many there is not a lot in common, negotiate a no strings thing, etc Not all affairs are romantic. Many are about looking for sex online and picking the most convenient and ok looking one. They aren’t life shattering…want to spend my life with you and raise kids together, etc [/quote]

Yes- seeing most affair down and less than 2% end in marriage. These aren’t “quality” people. They are more the kind you hide in a hotel room and would be embarrassed to be seen in public with, have your family, friends or co-worker meet. [/quote]

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