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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]					I don’t know, op, where were you when she was sidling up to this neighbor? Fine if all they did was run together, fine if all they did was chat at neighborhood parties, but why the texting and leaving you out? That would annoy me. I’d also be annoyed if my husband preferred to sit with another woman then with me, to the point that I’d go over and have a seat or my husband and I would not be having a pleasant evening when we got home. 
Your problem is you let this go on to long. Your other problem is that you weren’t present enough meaning, you treated your wife well like a wife and not like a beloved partner. Go back to how you treated her when you guys were newly dating and with that mindset nobody can mess up the relationship… unless something is wrong with one of you or one of you didn’t like the other one as much as you might have hoped. 
This isn’t keeping an eye on someone it’s letting them and the world know you have a special relationship and that relationship is known and respected by everybody you interact with. 
As for the wife giving you the silent treatment, that’s abusive.If that’s what she’s doing I’d call her out on it. I might even say “you like this guy enough to stop speaking to me.. let’s discuss divorce”. Say it without anger and mean what you say, there is nothing wrong with discussing changing the legalities of a relationship. People do it all the time, think marriage and adoption and those are happy conversations if not just conversations. No reason divorce can’t be handled in the same way. 
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I'm pretty sure you don't actually have a husband.[/quote]

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