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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s crazy how people lose complete perspective in this area. It’s horrible this happened and everyone can agree on that, including NCRC, but to act like it’s this rampant problem with males in preschools isn’t true. We have 3000 preschools in metro area, and lots of guys work at these schools. One or two cases, as evil as they were, does not mean that males shouldn’t work with children. It’s not a common thing here, so get a grip, people. [/quote] One or two? You have no idea about what you are talking about. [/quote]What do you plan on doing when your child goes to Elementary school and lots of guys work there?[/quote] I make sure I chose a school that either never had this problem, or did but manage it perfectly fine and have a reputation to not put things under the rug. And I make sure they have a good policy, no hugs with teachers, nobody alone with a child… [/quote] Never that you know of. The school could either have had zero issues, which is what you see, or the school could have covered up every single one to make it invisible and it would appear the same to you. The latter is what my school did. It wasn’t that there was less abuse or no abuse, it was that it was covered up so well every single time.[/quote] THIS. Never voice any potential abuse to the school. You’ll REGRET it. Always go straight to the POLICE to report your concerns. They’ll decide how to proceed. [/quote] I guess this is why NCRC still hasn't commented on how to navigate the potential that our children are victims?[/quote] In all seriousness - why would NCRC parents need this spelled out them? It should be obvious. The HOS is an extreme pervert. [b]He had access to your child in some capacity. [/b] A logical next step is to start the difficult process of determining if your child was abused. This is best handled by a pediatrician or the police, not the school who has little to no interest in abuse being uncovered. I don’t see what their role is. [/quote] Ok, self-appointed wise person who has no familiarity with NCRC: Tell us all about that access. Because, as most NCRC parents know, JC was generally in his office doing HOS stuff, while kids were in busy classrooms with multiple teachers. Kids are rarely alone with a single teacher, except some maybe for OT; kids are very, very rarely alone with the HOS. I almost wonder if moving from classroom teacher to outplacement to HOS were self-protective moves on his part.[/quote] Please stop the BS! When a child was late. Mr. Eric usually took the child to the classroom, but if another child was also late, JC would take over. Some classrooms were on the ground floor and safe, while others were on the second floor—or even in the treetop class. Mr. Eric or JC would use the back door and take the stairs where nobody could see them.[/quote] You think abuse was happening during 3 minutes on a stairwell that other people can use? I suppose it's possible, but seems highly unlikely to me.[/quote] Agree with PP. The PP before this needs to stop. There are cameras in the entrance that show when you arrive, cameras in the stairwells that make everything visible, and cameras in the classroom that show when the child makes it there. IF (and that’s a big “if”) there is any wrongdoing in the building with actual students, it will come to light. Until then, hug your children and take a deep breath. [/quote]
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