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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like your wife. I'm wiped out and feel like I have nothing to give. I think if I didn't have to work, plus shop, cook, clean, pack lunches, and do drop offs and pick ups, I'd have something left for my husband but I am all tapped out. Libido zero. Energy zero. [/quote]

Don't be surprised when he strays then. It never ceases to amaze me how the person you took vows with, the person who is supposed to be your true love and soul mate, gets pushed to the back burner. Really, prioritizing packing lunches over your life partner? You're sad and pathetic. [/quote]

Why so hostile towards someone who's acknowledging that the overwhelming responsibilities towards kids and household and job take their toll, especially on women, who rightly feel so much is dumped on them? Packing lunches is about feeding your kids. Maybe in your world of twoo luv and soulmates, kids just hover around the fuzzy edges of life, smiling and looking cute, but in the real world, they have needs that you have to meet unless you want Child Protective Services at your door. 
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I had that same thought.  What kind of person would forgo feeding their children lunch in order to spend that time having sex?  [/quote]

Most schools have lunches you can buy. Problem solved. Now start burning up the covers. [/quote]

Or if you're on a relationship with an unequal amount of parent duties you shift  responsibilitis more equitably then just focusing on school lunches as the reason why your not having sex.

I have said to my husband that I don't necessarily view him being responsible for housework and parenting as a turn-on but definitely when he acts like a gigantic man baby it's a huge turnoff.[/quote]

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