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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP.  BTDT.  Our sex life was miserable during the ES years and it nearly destroyed our marriage.  And we had a great marriage but all unraveled without sex, the glue to marriage.

I wish I had good advice for you, but the truth there was very little I could do to get my wife interested in sex.  I hit everything on the checklist and it didn't matter.  In retrospect, the best advice I can give you is simply to have the hard and honest and sometime brutal conversations about the importance of sex in marriage.  Looking back, the fact my wife cried during those conversations was probably a good sign.  She knew it was a big deal but didn't or couldn't do anything about it.

Our marriage is better now, and the youngest is ready to hit high school in a year.  So glad we didn't throw in the towel.  Divorce is really tough on kids.  The one constant I hear from my friends who divorced non-toxic marriages was they wished they fought harder for the marriage.  It gets better when the kids get older.[/quote]

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