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[quote=Anonymous]OP I just want to say I feel for you because I'm kinda there too.  I feel like my DH just doesn't really like me anymore.  I think he thinks I'm a good mother, good at my job, and maybe even a good wife on paper, but he just doesn't seem to enjoy my company and everything I do seems to irritate him.  There are a lot of circumstantial things going on around here that I'm sure exacerbate things -- toddler, pregnancy, stressful job, all the fun of being in your 30s -- but significant as those things are I don't think they explain everything.  I've thought a lot in the last 6 months or so that if we didn't have a kid, I would leave.  But, we do and I'm the child of divorced parents and it really sucks so I don't want that for my kids.  But, it is so very sad living with someone who makes you feel undesirable - be it physically or otherwise (or both, in my case).

It seems pretty obvious that we both need to talk to our spouses.  I've been trying to figure out how to do it in a way that doesn't turn into an argument.  I think he feels the disconnect too, so I'm hoping we can agree that it's there and focus on building a better future as a team without getting into an unproductive round of the blame game.  Good luck OP.[/quote]

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