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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We aren't married yet. I left my spouse, and then he left his wife. It's better than I imagined it would be. Some days we do nothing at all. He sits on the couch working, and I'm curled up next to him reading.
I like that he comes home to me, and I have dinner ready. I like that he does my laundry. I like that we spend time with friends together and go on road trips without his phone blowing up. My blood pressure is much better. I enjoy pillow talk. I like constantly hearing "we". I'm happy to have finally met his family. The best thing is he doesn't go back to her at night.[/quote]

THIS is what we all want. Well, OK, this is what I want.[/quote]

Ugh.  How long has it been?  Sounds like no kids.[/quote]

He has 1 child. He's very active in Dc's life. I don't want to meet dc until after the divorce is final.[/quote]

Ha. [/quote]

+1.  Oh dear.[/quote]

Does his family know that he cheated with you?[/quote]

Yes. His marriage was over a long time before I showed up. He didn't leave because he didn't want to leave for many reasons I won't go into. His family didn't like her and the way she treated him. I know the wives on these boards are painted like saints but no one likes this woman.[/quote]

Well, actually it's kind of a cliche that the first wives are blamed for everything and called crazy, but that's what women say when they are in love with married men.  But you seem to have a sane perspective on your situation so I wish you well.[/quote]

PP, does it bother you that your man has proven he will break his marriage vows?[/quote]

No. It bothers me that he didn't leave sooner. They were in therapy for nearly a decade. He should have left when she said voices were telling her to kill his dogs.[/quote]

Oh yeah she's batshit crazy except woops, sounds like she has primary custody of the kid. Hmmmm.

Holy delusion Batman. Obvs you cheat and lie but the saddest lies are the ones you tell yourself.[/quote]

No they have 50/50 custody[/quote]

So the domestic bliss you describe is only 50% of the time?? This just keeps getting sadder.[/quote]

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