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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree there are many ways to abuse, and it is not a competition on who had it worse. Example of abuse in my case, is my mother slamming her hand on the kitchen counter while holding a sharp knife blade up and yelling at me and my DD that she will do whatever it takes to make my DD into a decent girl. (DD is a nice girl but occasionally talks back) and then accusing us of abusing her, while she is visiting. You can imagine how fun was that visit. Then going on saying how knife thing was nothing. I guess my perspective is a little different as I grew up with emotional and physical abuse and still face it, but now once a year when she comes to visit and even then I try to avoid her as much as possible. Her visits are a form of abuse too, to be honest. Abuse extends only to me and now my DD, and not to my sister or my husband or my son, or her other son in law. Abuse is not towards my Dad either who was abusive to her, and I protected her yet even for that she blames me. Son is the reason I allow the visits as he loves grandma and she him. So, for me mom cutting me off would be a blessing.[/quote]

You need to protect your DD more than you need to let your son see your abusive mother. She'll turn on him too if he pisses her off in just the right way. But seriously, even if you don't care enough to  protect yourself, protect your DD. Exposing her to abuse is a form of abuse. [/quote]

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