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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP and the majority of pps on this thread are self centered, entitled brats. You are the abusers and whiners beyond precedent. You have no perspective on life and value of family. You have never given a single thought about anybody else but yourself. You confuse random disagreement with abuse, you mistake occasional family fight with war. You have never shown respect to anybody but demand it for yourself. For the first time I agree with the poster who uses the term precious snowflake.  You are all snotty snowflakes, drifting around thinking about imagined slights and abuses. You use poor language and have no real life education and experience. You value one thing and one thing only, yourselves.[/quote]

You sound like you are really mad at someone in your life for not doing exactly what you want, PP.

I'm one of the "brat" PP's and I was never ever allowed to fight or be angry with my mother or my family. I had to do what I was told and not ever talk back, and I did--until I moved out in my 20s.  I made all A's as I was told to do, I did not date, I did not do drugs, I did not get pregnant, I wore the clothes I was told to wear, I did my hair the way they wanted me to, I said what they wanted me to say when they told me to say it. I went to the college they told me to go to. (And, yes, I am a white American, no different cultures here.) Once I graduated and my parents were no longer footing the bill, I immediately got a job, left home and proceeded to live life exactly the way I wanted to-which made my parents furious.

I am happily married for 20+ years, have a graduate degree, have friends, have a successful career, have been self-supporting since I was 22, and earn enough to live in the DC area. However, I am told I am ungrateful and unsuccessful by my family still--even after helping my parents through medical crisis after medical crisis. [/quote]

And this is same with ordering take out disagreement--how?[/quote]

It's been explained in this thread more than once.[/quote]

So let me get the offenses of your parents. You were not allowed to fight with your parents? Clearly you could be angry at them, but inside, since they can't forbid inner feelings? You did what you were told, such as wear decent clothes, not get pregnant, and do your hair a certain way? They paid for your clothes, right? You went to college they told you to? It sounds like they paid for college? So apart from being strict in clothing and rude language and not allowing you to get pregnant, what other abuses are we looking at? Now, as an adult you say they are unhappy with your choices, and you contradict yourself by saying that you no longer take their abuses, in fact you are allowing them these "abuses" and helping them?  And I am not the one doing what I want?  You really need to reread your own post.[/quote]

Who are you taking to?  I'm the PP who told you it's been explained several times, but I'm not the PP who posted the long post above.  Either way, you really don't know what you're talking about. :roll: [/quote]

I am talking about the pp whose parents abused her by not allowing her to get pregnant and to use rude language. I don't see how these are abuses.[/quote]

You don't think things like telling a teenager how to style her hair, what clothes she has to wear, and to never voice opinions that aren't in agreement with her parents are controlling behaviors? [/quote]

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