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[quote=Anonymous]OP I am not sure what advice to give you but I will speak to you as a wife who no longer wants sex either.  My DH is loving and kind and a wonderful father.  He does more than his fair share of housework too.  I think for me its a combo of hormonal changes (not on birth control but at age 43 in some kind of pre-menopause), and honestly I am not longer sexually attracted to him. He has gained about 40 lbs since we got married.  Also, he was never that great in bed to begin with.  It was fine in the beginning because I was so in love and knew he was the man for me. But now its just frustrating and sex doesnt even seem worth the effort.  I have seen a dr to talk about my low libido but thyroid and hormone levels are all normal.  And here is the real rub, i do want to have sex but not with my husband. I am never going to cheat but I do think about other men all the time.  I think this is what most men can't accept, your wife does want sex but not with you.     I am not sure where we go from here and I have no idea about your personal situioatn but I wanted to share mine. [/quote]

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