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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Actually, I am guessing what would make her happy would be if she regained sexual attraction to her husband and that intimacy returned to their lives.[/quote]

What a great idea! Tonight I'm going to order my wife to be more sexually attracted to me so that she'll be happy.[/quote]

Are other women sexually attracted to you? Are there things you can do to become more sexually attractive? Have you tried? I think confidence, physical fitness, and having a backbone (especially when it comes to her) can go a long way. [/quote]

Word! If you want your wife to be attract[b][color=red]ed[/color][/b], then work hard at being attract[b][color=red]ive[/color][/b].
Dress well. Hit the gym. Increase your sex rank. Flirt with all the ladies at the beach.
Your *wife* might not take notice. But the female attention positions you for success in open marriage or divorce.[/quote]

I hate to break it to you, but attraction isn't just about a good body or dressing well.  Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there.  In some cases of friends I have observed, they first started dating when they were young.  Chemistry is easier when you are young because you are flooded with hormones and just discovering that aspect of yourself.  They stay together, but then as they get older, one realizes that she/he isn't really attracted to the other (and no amount of working out at the gym can make that happen), but by that point, they are so familiar to each other, so used to each other, that there is no impetus/motivation to break up the relationship and move on.  The stability becomes the attractive feature of the relationship, and the partner who lost attraction just kind of assumes it is a loss of interest in sex in general.

As I said, it's not always about specific physical features.  That's why some men who have beautiful and fit wives aren't necessarily satisfied.  It's something beyond that.  It's chemistry.  Attraction is a complicated thing.  That's why it's so hard -- perhaps impossible -- to force it. [/quote]

And so much of attraction and excitement is based on the new and undiscovered. [/quote]

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