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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]But is it better for society that you stay home? Probably not[/quote] You do know that is quite debatable? I had my children very late and worked until then. Then, I made the choice to stay home--which, gratefully, we could afford. DH made a decent middle income salary. Of course, we gave up things. Nice house--but not fancy. Made do with old furniture. No fancy trips except to visit grandparents and a couple of trips to Disney. There are a lot of local excursions. Few restaurant dinners--but lots of youth sports. I am grateful we could afford to do this. DH had long hours--I do not see how we could have managed had I been working outside the home. Kids are grown now--and, I have no regrets. No criticism here of women who choose to work--but, please don't tell me it is better for society. Maybe, because I worked for years before I had kids, I did not feel that pull to work. I'd been there and done that.[/quote] Eh. I had my kids in my early twenties and went back in my early forties when they were in hs/ms. Been working for 10 years and have already hit the 6 figure mark. I'll probably work until my early 70s which gives me a thirty year career plus 15 years spent taking care of my children. There is no one "right" way of doing it.[/quote]
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