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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I think she should break up with him because she sounds insecure and I don't think there's any way for him to address that. The OP's concerns with this friendship are mostly centered around how much more successful/attractive/etc. this woman is than the OP. Given that the boyfriend is forthcoming about the relationship when asked, I don't think there's any dirty little secret. She's known him for 6 months and is essentially demanding that he give up a friendship with someone who he has already stated is not a romantic prospect for him and focus only on her.

If you and the OP are the kind of women who cannot stand the idea of your husbands and boyfriends being friends with women, then don't have relationships with men who have female friends. It's actually pretty black and white. [/quote]

Do you honestly believe that if he had feelings for this "Friend" he would fess up about it to the girlfriend? No guy does that. He is infatuated with this woman and if she changes her mind and wants a relationship OP is dumped. She is the girl he thinks is the best he can do. The "Friend" is what he wants but knows he can't have it. I you want a 100k car, but all you can afford is the 25k car. You buy the 25k car and continue to lust over the 100k car for a lifetime and should you ever have a chance at having the 100k car you will jump on it. [/quote]

I have no idea. What I do know is that there is no way out for this guy now. If he says, "No, I'm not interested in Beth" according to you, he must be lying, so it doesn't matter anyway. Dump him and go out with someone who will not speak to any women in any context for more than 3 minutes.[/quote]

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