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[quote=Anonymous]How about this, OP? You quietly keep an eye on things. You don't mention anything to him on what you've seen. You make some casual comments of a neutral sort about how you guys have gotten into a rut, bogged down in taking care of jobs, kids, household, etc, and that you "miss" him and want to have more fun with him. You take things up a notch sexually. Give him more attention overall than you have been. Validate and make him feel good about things. He might feel like you're psychic. He might put aside his ideas about looking for something different. You'll have done what you can to make things as good as you can. If he still goes looking elsewhere, it's 100 percent him and his issues, and that's beyond your control or responsibility. I did all of the above and he still cheated, due to mid-life crisis issues and his other serious issues that created a dark, painful void in him. Things fell apart and he's been in therapy ever since. [/quote]
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