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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please stop hijacking OP's thread.  Start your own discussion.

OP, how are you doing?[/quote]

OP here, thanks! I'm ok. I'm still trying to decide what to do. As far as I can tell he hasn't been back on that website nor has he read those emails/messages, unless there is a way for him to do it without it showing as "read" or showing he's been online there. Part of me really needs to know if he would ever take this farther which is why I haven't said anything yet but the other part of me is having a hard time not confronting him with it.

I guess the best case scenario is if I say something, he owns up to it, apologizes profusely, says he was stupid and just curious etc. Obviously that is better than my not saying anything and waiting for him to do something else. BUT even if that best case scenario happens, how do I know he's being honest and how do I know he won't do it again later and just be more careful so I don't find out? But I also don't want to just leave and say that's it from just this one thing. We would go to counseling but even then, I feel like I will always have some doubt. As I said before, I honestly thought we had a good marriage. His family always talks about how he is the happiest they've ever seen him thanks to me and the family we have and he confirms it. Obviously we have our disagreements but I don't think we do more than anyone else and it's always about little things. And contrary to what some DCUMers think our sex life is better now than when we were first married. So now I'm just really sad that my marriage is not what I thought it was.
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