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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister is married to a SAHD - she is the breadwinner and fine with that - he runs the household (two kids), volunteers at church and school and does most of the cooking, shopping etc.  He also works out a lot and has many hobbies.  They both spend equal amounts of time with kids on weekend activities, etc. Seems like a nice arrangement.
THAT SAID - she constantly judges me as a SAHM!!! She makes comments about how if she were in my shoes she would have gotten another degree by now, etc.  I guess she thinks my activities as a SAHM (2 kids, all activities, shopping, cooking etc. Also work out a lot and have hobbies. ) are not as significant as her spouse?  Difference is my DH works many, many more hours than she does and therefore doesn't even participate in most weekend activites.....I cannot win with her. She is just very judgemental. [/quote]

How sad for your kids especially, but your husband as well.  No amount of money or career success is worth what they are all losing.[/quote]

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