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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I strongly believe the man should pay for the first few dates. I always offer to pay half regardless of my expectation, but no one has ever allowed me to do so. After the first few dates, both should be paying. It is kind of ridiculous to always expect the guy to pay for everything, especially if you both are hardworking adults. The men I dated and been in relationships with have always noted they respected me moe for picking up tabs on subsequent dates. [/quote] You contractor yourself! If men are paying for the first few dates, that can add up quite a bit. If you go out with a lot of different men just 2 or 3 times, you are getting a lot of free meals. Equal pay, equal pay![/quote] I didn't contradict myself. His paying means to me he is interested and can provide. And who said anything about free meals? I said I always offer to pay for half. [/quote] Like the OPs date did. Then she got angry when he said ok. Can't have it both ways sister. [/quote] Chivalry is the original feminism. As a rabid feminist I will take a man who pays for me and is kind, conscientious, and thoughtful ANY DAY over the whiny man babies that love to gloat over "equal is equal"- meanwhile, it's not equal, and the wage gap still exists! When patriarchy is defeated and the wage gap is flipped- trust me, I will GLADY pay for my hot little piece to eat out. Until then, the man needs to pay. You dont like it? Campaign for women to be treated equally- campaign for less rape, fixing the wage gap, less discrimination against women in business settings, etc. Settled. [/quote] You're unhinged. I hope there isn't a man se earless enough to date you, if there is I pity him[/quote]
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