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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most men do not expect their wives to make 50% of the money. They do probably expect you to do more of the housework and child rearing though. I think the majority of men are quite happy making the most money, and probably prefer it this way. [/quote] This is unfortunately true for many marriages. My husband really doesn't care how much money I make or don't make. He views it as an added bonus. He seems to have some primal drive to provide for us. I sadly think he'd be more upset if our home didn't look nice and we stopped going on vacations and socializing with friends. Sadly I don't think the desires of men have changed that much. They simply have less power now than they used to hold. I have a feeling there are many women with careers which our husbands could give or take. [/quote] My husband is like this. I am a doctor at a major academic hospital, but he treats it like a little hobby I have in addition to making the house run and raising the kids and gets very annoyed if it inconveniences him. It can be frustrating. [/quote] Ok, you know what? If you're an MD, that's a big deal. You've got a point. You're God. But if you're not an MD, no, the guy doesn't care about your career. He didn't go out with you because you had 2 advanced degrees; he went out with you because you were fun. He married you despite you being a hardass at work, not because of it. [/quote] Not true, the less a man makes the more his wife's salary matters. So even if she is not an MD, if the H makes $60K, a woman making $50K is a big deal in term of finances.[/quote]
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