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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like we're too dismissive of the hormonal issue. Men have loads of testosterone which makes their sexual interest easy to spark. Women's hormonal make up makes their sexual interest tougher to spark than a man's, in most cases; but: a) early in a relationship, and b) when she's younger, the hormones caused by those things make her sexual interest easier to spark than it is when she and the relationship age.

That's nobody's fault, but it's not helpful to rationalize that sex is harder to come by because the guy became less romantic rather than acknowledge the role blood chemistry plays in the whole situation. [/quote]

Do you know how crappy this makes me feel, as a woman with higher than normal sex drive married to a man with lower than average sex drive?  I just really need to have an affair.[/quote]

Not saying this to be mean, but this is what it's like to be a married man in far too many marriages.   I hope the women on this thread express sympathy for you because they have none for us.[/quote]

If you can't see that a lot of the advice people are giving comes from a place of compassion towards you general situation than that is a decent indicator of what your problem is.

A LOT of posters here have talked about sex is important, OF COURSE it is terrible to be rejected by your spouse. But you see providing suggestions as lack of sympathy, which IS your problem. [/quote]

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