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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But, getting back to the original question: yes, if my husband would use what I've told him about how to get me to melt (just complete undivided attention to touch and response) then he'd get a tremendous return on that investment.  Instead, he's all about his own ego, and thinks what I want means he has to do all the work so he won't do it.  For him sex seems to be all about resentment and selfish pride.  So, not happening.[/quote]

Men are the pursuers, it's in the DNA.   Modern men either don't know how or can't be bothered to 'seduce' their wives (and I don't mean flowers or doing the dishes.)  So they get what they deserve.   [/quote]

Teach us to seduce. That's the exact point of this thread. Be specific.[/quote]

Well, last Saturday, my husband took me out on a date that he arranged.  He told me before we left that he wanted to have sex that night.  During the date, he told me several times how beautiful I was and how proud he was to have me as his wife.  Before we walked in the door, he made sure that he had cash in hand so we could quickly get the babysitter out and head to the bedroom.

But this depends on the woman.  I have had five kids and work at a busy doctors office that sees mostly heroin addicts.  I don't feel beautiful all that often, and I rarely get to let go and have someone else be the boss.  So I love this.  But if your wife is very beautiful, but is told what to do all day long, telling her that she is beautiful and you want to have sex with her probably won't work.  She probably needs you to tell her how important she is and how much you value her work in your family, and maybe even role play that you are completely in her control.

I really agree with the pp in this thread that the point is the relationship.  [/quote]

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