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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yikes. It looks even worse if you have that much hostility towards your sister (whether it's justified hostility or not, it doesn't matter). You aren't "spiting" her by re-using her daughter's name for your own child - you just look petty and a little pitiful and it WILL be embarrassing for your daughter when she is older. I'm not saying this to be mean at all, just to share an outsider perspective based on the information we have here - YOU are the one who comes out of this looking crazy and bad, not your sister. If you don't care about that at all, or how your daughter will perceive this situation when she is older (without being able to change it, because SHE is stuck with the recycled name and the big sign on her forehead that her mom has major issues), then go for it. But do it with your eyes wide open, it makes you look nuts and it will be hard for your daughter when she is older. [/quote] +1 to all of this. I have a hard time believing your husband is okay with this.[/quote]
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