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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Maybe she used to be hot.[/b]

I don't think DH and I are mismatched but he is now more attractive than I am. When I was 25, I was pretty cute and had an awesome figure. 15 years, 2 kids and other health problems resulting in surgery have done a real number on my body. I went from being 110 pounds to 130 pounds. I had these perfect boobs when I was 25. 2 kids later, they are ok but my mid section is almost the same as my breasts. I was probably 34-25-30 and now 34-30-30. Definitely do not look hot in a bikini. On the other hand, DH's body is pretty much the same. He was always on the lean side.

An ivy league educated girl with a cute face and nice figure was pretty high in demand when she was in her 20's. Now a 40 yo average looking successful man is high in demand. A 40 yo mom with 2 kids who used to have a great career and great figure may not be as attractive.[/quote]

Possibly. When I met DW she was 26 and hot. I was 28 and kind of geeky. Who knows why she chose me. Today I'm 48 and still in good shape while she weighs 230 pounds. It happens.[/quote]

That is terrifying[/quote]

There are worse things. You could find out that your spouse is a superficial asshole. THAT would be terrifying. 
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I'd probably choos a superficial asshole than a morbidly obese spouse. Sorry. Taking care of yourself should be part of the marital contract. Letting yourself go to the point where, as a female, you're 230 pounds? There is no excuse for that. You can't possibly be serious and think that it's fair for someone to let themselves go to that point. [/quote]

It's 230, not 500 lbs. Not really morbidly obese.

Sounds like you'd be a good match for a superficial asshole.  
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You are actually delusional if you think 230 pounds on a woman is a) healthy or b) remotely attractive. If you entered your relationship at a healthy weight and ballooned to 230, and your husband tells you it's fine, I have a wake up call for you. He's lying. [/quote]

If you had read the original pp you'd see it was a DH explaining how hogs wife gained weight not a DW claiming her DH didn't care. And since this is an anonymous forum where hating fat people is very popular I can't see why he'd lie about that.

But clearly you are mortally terrified of being fat so whatever, sorry if your DH is a raging ahole.

-208 here with a DH who loves her very much[/quote]

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