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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's changed that you aren't attracted to him anymore?[/quote]

I guess when we were single and in our early to mid thirties I was down for whatever and not busy cooking cleaning and taking care of DD. Back then DH was my focus but now I'm all consumed with 100% of the household, yard, maintenance, and childcare duties except one preschool drop off a week. I don't even think about sex. I'm utterly exhausted. We have no family in the area either.[/quote]
You've relegated him to second class citizen and keep this up he's going to find someone else who appreciates him or leave

http://www.newsweek.com/men-who-cheat-its-not-about-sex-appreciation-88859

He's trying to connect with you and you're turning him away.  You should go to counseling and see what the issues are [/quote]

Sounds like she has 2 jobs, and her dh needs to help more. Yes he can cheat,  she can also find another guy to be a better father and partner! He'd better go to counseling to fix his lack of desire to maintain his home life. There's no reason for him not to do his share of the home and child care.
He'd better start trying harder, if he wants his bedroom life to pick up. [/quote]
OP stated he works many more hours than her.  What they need to do is hire some help to take care of some of those tasks.  DH already busts his ass 70 hours a week to come home to what?  A wife that is either too exhausted or repulsed by him to have sex.  Why would he do even more if she's not interested in trying to help out?  Perhaps hiring some help and taking a date night every now and then is better than "DH needs to do more around the house".  Besides, doing more housework doesn't mean he gets more sex
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2867274/Doing-housework-means-men-sex-Researchers-reveal-chores-seen-feminine-women-off.html

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