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Reply to "Need advice - I have zero attraction to DH and avoid sex"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's changed that you aren't attracted to him anymore?[/quote] I guess when we were single and in our early to mid thirties I was down for whatever and not busy cooking cleaning and taking care of DD. Back then DH was my focus but now I'm all consumed with 100% of the household, yard, maintenance, and childcare duties except one preschool drop off a week. I don't even think about sex. I'm utterly exhausted. We have no family in the area either.[/quote] You've relegated him to second class citizen and keep this up he's going to find someone else who appreciates him or leave http://www.newsweek.com/men-who-cheat-its-not-about-sex-appreciation-88859 He's trying to connect with you and you're turning him away. You should go to counseling and see what the issues are [/quote] Sounds like she has 2 jobs, and her dh needs to help more. Yes he can cheat, she can also find another guy to be a better father and partner! He'd better go to counseling to fix his lack of desire to maintain his home life. There's no reason for him not to do his share of the home and child care. He'd better start trying harder, if he wants his bedroom life to pick up. [/quote]
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