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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To everyone saying she doesn't want sex and he needs to fully back off, how long is it acceptable to get away with "I don't want sex"? He says it's been 4x since conception of a baby who is now 8 months old. Exactly how long is a spouse supposed to shut up and happily tolerate a spouse not having sex? Two years? Three? He's in a sexless marriage. She isn't trying at all. Cards don't count. So just how long do you think he's supposed to complacently tolerate a marriage where he is not getting sex and is also being accused of cheating when he's not?

The baby is 8 months. If there's physical discomfort, and I'm leaning toward there isn't, it's just her discomfort and self consciousness making her tense, she needs to get it addressed. This is not a way to live. Both partners have to at least TRY. [/quote]

Get away with?  As long as she needs.

It is not a crime to not want to have sex. Her body is HER PROPERTY, not her husbands.

He can jerk off, or leave if he wants. But she is under no obligation. [/quote]

Ah, I see. Is divorce and losing 50% of your assets and time with your child really so preferable to sex with your husband? [/quote]

I could ask the same. Is getting laid really worth divorce and losing 50% of your assets and time with your child?[/quote]

It's a vital part of marriage. Who's to say this won't go on forever. No woman or man should have to accept that sex is just off the table oh but if you go elsewhere or ask for divorce YOU'RE the bad guy. At what point does she owe it to her husband to figure her shit out or give him a pass?[/quote]

She doesn't need to figure anything out. It's sad that our culture has been so controlled by patriarchy that we dont acknowledge that a low libido, which is usually held by women, is perfectly fine.  OP is the one with an out of whack libido angry about sex.  It's his problem. [/quote]

Wanting to have sex with your partner is not an "out of whack libido."[/quote]

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