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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As others have said it's not that he's poor, it's that his few resources are being sucked away by his family. If that is OK with you and you are willing to have less (one or no kids and so on) or work harder so you can have more as a couple, then go for it. [/quote]

In all fairness there is no way OP can look into the future and truly comprehend the gravity and implications of this type of decision. It will mean so much more when you're older OP, and the desires that you have now to marry are really giving you a skewed view on the long term value of this. Even though it is hard to start a new relationship when there is nothing horrible hat had happened, love yourself and your future children enough to commit to a man whose family won't threaten their financial security, your potential happiness with their father, and the choices and resources you want them to grow up with.

There are many great men out there. Tell your good man to wise up and act right or you're going to get to stepping.

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