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[quote=Anonymous]Hi its OP here, amusing to read the different perspectives. I do need to clarify a few things-

The woman who rescheduled her luncheon WAS invited to my home and DID RSVP that she was coming. This was not a stop by for a quick cup of coffee as someone implied but I set up my dining room for 12 and ordered brunch type foods, put out my china, etc......

No one made the effort to reschedule in fact almost all except one cancelled via email! The 3 that came were not part of that circle to begin with and 2 of those women I am quite friendly with.

There have been other event/snubs much more recent but at least 5 or 6 incidences, I am not going to go into them because its very likely someone from the school is reading this post and I dont want to implicate (dramatic sounding) anyone more than I have.

But I do stand behind everything I have said. The more I have thought about this I have urged and supported my husband to go but I really am not interested in going.

Thankfully between my education and my husbands career we have a healthy number of connections at schools for my son down the road, which hopefully he will not need to rely on very heavily at least. I  might be many thing but above all, I am an authentic person and simply put have no interest in playing this social climbing game or putting on false pretenses for the sake of having a connection in the right place down the road....no thank you. I think we will fare just fine. I appreciate all the input though (the rush to judgements not so much) but I understand and respect everyone is entitled to their respective.[/quote]

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