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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Basically ladies you find a man who treats you and your kids like royalty he only wants to be with you no other women yet he works at burger king . but says he wants to find something better.does he have a chance with you?[/quote]

Honestly, not at my age.  When I as in high school or college if this was a co-worker ...maybe.  In my late 30's with kids if the person is the same age and working as a cashier or cook, no.  I would agree with the PP that said talk is cheap and I would wonder why the person hasn't already taken steps to find something better.  It isn't the salary because there are jobs like teacher, fireman, police officer, working in the military that don't pay the big money but would be acceptable careers assuming I could deal with the demands of having my significant other in those jobs. I earned more than DH when we were dating but he was in a career where his salary would go up, he is a hard worker, he is good about living within his means and saving money, and he didn't expect me to support him.

Unemployed is a no.  It's hard enough when you are in a serious relationship and there is a stretch of unemployment. But atleast then you know how good it can be and hope to get back to that.  In general I think men deal within employment worse than woman.  In early dating you set yourself up for the person possibly moving where he can get a job, potentially being depressed or acting crazy due to his insecurity of not being employed  or being perfectly fine with unemployment and looking for a sugar mamma.  [/quote]

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