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[quote=Anonymous]My thoughts are you should do something like this: Tell DS2 you had a dream the other night DS1's wife will be pregnant soon. Therefore, you know it will happen and want to be prepared to give DS1's kids the same lifestyle as DS2s kids have had. Explain that you'll need to be focused on the grand kids from this point forward to make it fair. Other than paying for vacations, stop paying anything for DS2. No condos, no supplementing income. College funds and kids activities are all that get paid. DS1 is trying and it could be a reality. Also, surrogates aren't cheap so you can tell DS2 you need to fund that ASAP (and offer DS1 to fund it). In the nicest way possible, let DS2 know you've gotten him this far and now DS1 needs ya. [/quote]
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