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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you chose to have three kids with a man you don't respect?[/quote]

Like I have said multiple times. He put on a good show until recently. Made a lot of false promises and statements to me. I feel duped in a lot of ways. Promises to move for 3-4 years (our youngest is now 3 and sharing a bedroom with two older siblings). Yes this area is expensive. But the current arrangement (family of 5 in a two bedroom condo) is laughable. [/quote]

Really?

Nothing about this post seems real.[/quote]

We're starting to get to the bottom of this. As she hinted to in previous posts, this guy checked all the superficial boxes prior to marriage (private school education), but once the rubber hit the road, i.e. having a family, the light shined upon her. Let this be a lesson to all the little ladies out there that the keys to a successful marriage and family runs beyond checking boxes like private school education and social standing.[/quote]

My husband used to clean up more, put his dirty clothes in the hamper, do his own laundry, shop & cook meals, plan actual dates, and ask how I was doing.

Two years into marriage he settled in to this "My role is provide a big paycheck" and does nothing around the house. He needs to be told to pick up his boxers, told when the front lawn needs mowing, told what his toddler kids eat. The only time he opens his mouth is to either say he has to do office work or to ask me What should we do today?  Every single weekend. He doesn't even take the time to successfully get Life Insurance and we're on kid #2 already.

I blame his mother and father.  He has some messed up idea or marital roles.  His mother must have really sheltered him from the real world.  Book smart, zero street smarts.

I may reach my saturation point someday soon. [/quote]

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