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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I also find valuable the notion of taking "shit tests" in stride. In my former marriage, I used to do whatever I could to appease my ex-wife, and it didn't do anything to solve the discord, or had negative effects. Now I'm more likely to call a spade a spade. I don't know if it makes me more endearing, but I certainly don't feel anymore like I'm sacrificing a piece of my soul or my integrity.[/quote] You could always try, y'know, marrying someone whose thoughts and opinions you respect because you think they're fundamentally solid at thinking things through? When my wife is pissed off at me, it's usually because I fucked up. If I disagree, I make it clear that I disagree, and we talk it out. But most of the time, if she's pissed off at me (which is fairly rare), her reasons are valid; if her reasoning were constantly faulty, why would I marry someone like that?[/quote]
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