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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, OP, as many PPs have mentioned, maybe it doesn't make sense to immediately write off any guy over say 35. Looking for extenuating circumstances is fine. BUT, to answer your basic question, I agree that 35 is the age at which to start proceeding with major caution. Acceptable extenuating circumstances in my view: Long relationship in history that went sour Job overseas for extended period of time Worked in a job that required a great deal of travel in early career (consultant) Any other kind of situation that prevented the guy from feeling "stable and secure" until very recently Used to be fat or out of shape Used to be socially awkward and had to overcome that etc. I may be missing a few, but the point is - keep your eyes peeled for commitment issues. If it seems to good to be true (guy is good looking, 35+, successful, and never been married or in a long relationship), then i almost certainly is. [/quote]
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