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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Finally, some sane voices on this thread. I posted a somewhat critical assessment of OP and it was deleted. Not sure why as this thread should be for the cheerleaders and the critics.

But anyway, OP your thing seems to be more about clothes than a real identity crisis. Maybe you were just a crossdresser? [/quote]

I'm the PP in the OP's wifes situation. 
I don't necessarily think that those posting support weren't sane. I believe they didn't think about the impact OP's decisions had on the wife and children because nothing like this has ever hit so close to home for them. I can't expect people who are sheltered from this behavior where I'm coming from and how I feel. And I don't think OP is a horrible person. But her actions were.

I admit I'm angry at what I was forced to deal with. I'm a warm, hardworking and attractive woman who had a lot to give a deserving man. I was a good wife who took excellent care of my family. And that's what I wanted in life. I wanted a husband, a father, children and a traditional family life. I wanted kids in soccer and dance classes, family vacations and happy memories. What I was given was an emotional and financial mess. I'm angry, alone, and I don't trust people. I got saddled with not only raising the children alone, but paying for all the therapy bills trying to help them understand. I'm the one that's holding them at night when they cry. By the time my role as a mother will be fulfilled, I'll be in my mid 50's and the dating pool doesn't appear all that attractive. So for the OP to say my life wasn't wasted is perhaps the most selfish statement I've ever heard someone make. And sure... OP can say that because like my exH, she's off doing what she wants to do while I'm here doing what I have to do.

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