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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No way. Even if there is no chance of an affair, I don't want my husband comparing my physical qualities to her.[/quote]

Because without the nanny it's a mystery to him that there are women out there who are younger and fitter?[/quote]

Wow, I feel sorry for you guys if you don't understand the difference in awareness, temptation and liklihood of problems between general awareness of younger and fitter women... and having one come to your house every day and caring for/bonding with your child.  You also clearly don't spend much time reading other threads on this or the Explicit forum, because fantasies combined with access (or potential access) lead to problems with unwanted sexual attention or wanted sexual attention ALL THE TIME.

I really do trust my husband, but I also don't see the point in bringing someone in who is attractive in a way that might be distracting.  Just as I actually chose an instructor for a skill I wanted to learn and did NOT choose the hot young guy!  I doubt he would have been interested in me, but why even invite getting to know someone professionally who I know from the get go I think is attractive?  Just not worth it to go that way even if I'd never act on it.  And I know I wouldn't, because - long story, but there's someone I've been friends with before I even met DH and always had sexual tension with, and a few years ago we were in a situation where he made a pass at me and I could have gone for it and probably gotten away with it.  But I didn't not, and honestly, I didn't even pause to consider it,  said no right away.

And even with all that clarity... I know from the experience of friends and family and reading here that there's no reason to throw that kind of bait into a situation.  It's inviting trouble.[/quote]

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