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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most girls I know want to have "adventures" in their twenties, early thirties (by that I mean travel, partying, changing careers, dating lots of different guys, etc.). They don't even want to *think* about marriage until 32-33. Seems valid to me (a man).[/quote]

The problem with the thinking of these "girls" (and I know, because I was exactly like this 20 or so years ago), is that -- while they are doing all of the aforementioned travel, partying, changing careers, dating lots of different guys and much etc throughout their twenties and early thirties -- they are also squandering away the truly best, last years of their lives to be husband-hunting.

And -- of this I am certain -- they will wake up one day at about 34/35 and wonder WTH happened. All of a sudden, great men (read: husband prospects) are not appearing out of no where to be summarily dated and then tossed aside for the next great guy that comes along. All of a sudden, many or most of their friends are settled down with families. They will notice all the hot young things snipping at their heels on the career climb. The men they do meet who have not been married have "issues;" the ones who are divorced have children and baggage ex-wives.

It's no longer "fun."

This is what OP is stating. You don't control the timetable as much as you want to think you do.[/quote]

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