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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can't you be disgusted by the behaviors of both?   95% if the time, the other woman is the one posting here.  Hence why the responses are directed at her vs him.  I think the husband is worse than the other woman, but the OW isn't blameless.   You'd think any self respecting woman wouldn't sleep with a married man.  And yet they do.   If I found out a friend was sleeping with a married man, I'd be disgusted by her choice, think less of her, and end the friendship.  Complete lack of morals and sign that someone isn't as nice as you thought.   I'd be more disgusted by the guy if I knew him.   Both are to blame. [b]Both Aren't good human beings[/b].  Just because I may call someone out who posts that they are the OW, that doesn't mean I'm putting all the blame on her. [/quote]

Shit thing to say. People can and do fail in many different ways in life- we all bleed the same. I realize people are flawed and will sometimes make mistakes, sometimes things hard to forgive, but that doesn't make them any 'less' human'. That says a lot about your character.

I don't condone stepping out by either party and in fact, believe that both cheating men and women are broken looking to fill some need from within. I don't see a problem with the betrayed spouse venting on the OW or OM to get to where they need to be in reconciliation. As a PP said, it's easier to blame them than the one you love even though it is misplaced. Both are to blame.[/quote]

Nope. She's correct. They are both bad human beings.

And it's not "stepping out," an expression that minimizes cheating and betrayal.

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