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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure why people are jumping all over OP. If his wife changed her mind after getting married, is OP supposed to go along with her wishes? Isn't his wife being disrespectful of her husband's wishes?

I agree it would be ideal if OP told the friend about the issues his wife is now having. I also get the impression that OP and his wife are fundamentally incompatible.[/quote]

The women are all coming to the defense of the wife because that is what the sisterhood is expected to do. Pretty much the norm on this forum.

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NO, the women are coming down on the OP because it is unethical and disrespectful to conceive a child with someone else, either without their knowledge or despite their disapproval. I don't think it's out of the question for a married woman to expect that the default would be "My husband does not have children with anyone other than me, effective when we first became exclusive." If the wife is okay with donation, it's different. But it's not really a "sisterhood" thing to say "Don't have kids with other people, no matter how many organs they give you."[/quote]

But OP said his wife was aware of the arrangement before they married and changed her mind subsequently. Isn't this change of heart the crux of the problem?[/quote]

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