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[quote=Anonymous]A question that has come up repeatedly is whether my friend is aware of my wife's feelings about being a sperm donor: no, she is not aware of it and I don't feel that it would be fair to her to bring it up.

It did come up when I told her that I was contemplating marriage; she asked me whether my marriage would affect my ability to be a donor. I said it would not based on what I felt was an understanding I had with my wife at the time. She knew I had made a commitment that I would honor. All she said at that time was that she hoped that my friend would change her mind.

The fact that her feelings have become more polarized is because of certain external influences. These influences have played on her latent bias against gays, gay marriages and gays having children.

I absolutely would not put my friend in the position of having to, in effect, bail me out several years after I made a commitment to her and reaffirming it before I got married. She is counting on me - especially now that she has a partner who is fully vested in my role as a donor.

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