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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you have had many convos with your DH (I assume DD was a typo) and he does not care.

Obviously this is more of an issue for you.  It sucks, but without your DH on board what do you expect?[/quote]

OP is not saying her DH doesn't care.  She said she and DH have talked with her about it and SHE doesn't care.  Obviously he doesn't want her in his house, either, and she is simply choosing to ignore that she makes other people uncomfortable.  This is a woman who chose to cheat on DH and ruined their family -- she clearly already has selfishness issues, and what other people want or need just doesn't register with her.

I'm sorry you have to deal with this, OP.  It's pretty psycho to be dealing with someone so awful.  [b]And I don't agree with the posters who imply that you have no right to complain or feel upset because "you signed up for this".  [/b]No one signs up to deal with someone who is this inconsiderate of others, and you don't have to just accept regular home invasions because this is a second marriage.  [/quote]

I am not sure that is what people are saying.  I know that I said that she married a man whith kid who are close to their mother so she should mindful of that dynamic in taking action.  I was not saying that she should not feel upset.  What I am saying is that some of the advice given here is BAD advice because people are ignoring the dynamics of step families and making this about who is the alpha female in the OP's house.  IME, this is a slippery slope. [/quote]

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