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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am married to an adorable man who is sweet, kind and gentle. Despite his smarts, he isn't very financially motivated and chooses to pursue work that is "fun" and "interesting". I love him a lot, but resent that marrying him means we won't have the life I envisioned; nice house; private school for the children; being a stay at home mother, etc. Am I wrong to feel this way?Does anyone else secretly wish this too? Did you consider your husband's financial prospects before saying " I do"?[/quote] No, but I did require that the man I marry have ambition and goals. Being able to meet goals is attractive. [b]I expect my DH to keep pace with me when it comes to earnings. [/b]I don't ever want to rely on a man, but I also don't want to be the man.[/quote] What if he doesn't?[/quote] I don't know. It has never happened and he's too focused to let it slide, it's not in his personality. He's always improving and changing. That is what first attracted men to him. at at 37 he took a complete career change and has mastered his new path. I love the risk taker and confidence in him.[/quote]
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